There is that shop- sort of. Terry Bicycles and Team Estrogen. And the way they treated you is inecusable Dog Mama, but some shops just plain suck; some shops are so great they're worth a trip. Find a new one. I was making a 45 minute sit in traffic commute to a shop that adores women, then I was blessed with one in my neighborhood. I also have been treated like garbage at other shops- and gave them a blast of Queen B**ch Estrogen- I have a choice and won't stand for being condescended too, especially when they hire non riders off the street to try and sell me pricey parts that aren't compatilbe!
I could do a ten paragraph rant on this- but I'll throw out one more thing; Good LBS are staffed by accomplished riders and the owner is usually there, and usually out front. Does this tell you anything?

Lizzy

Yeah, I can wrench too, but my LBS taught me how. Blessed am I! And they keep good beer in the mechanics room...