Muirenn, I'm all for learning to use an efficient cadence and appropriately using one's gearing to get there. My original point was that it's an overgeneralizaton to suggest that any particular chainring/cog combo will be ideal for everyone. My husband rides a standard double. Until recently I had a compact double. My little ring, middle cog combo yields different gearing from his. And there are other variables on top of that.
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