I've had a heck of a time getting by butt back into biking shape this year - more so than normal. Sore sit bones and squished girly bits. I've been riding 2 bikes with 2 well tested saddles. The Terry Liberator Ti Race (was a men's saddle I think) and the Butterfly. The Butterfly has been really bad about squashing the girly bits for some odd reason. I think that's the slowest to "toughen up". The liberator ti race seems to give them a bit more room to breathe. Looking at it, it looks like it would be really uncomfortable, as it's basically vertical around the cut on the sides, but that's worked better for me so far this year than the butterfly.

I think I have to have a cut out, I'm just not sure I'm on the butterfly love list right now. I'll prolly be better in a few weeks, though