I have a custom Waterford with S&S couplers. It travels at least once or twice a year. As a small rider, your packing will probably be easier than mine (my seat tube is 58cm). The first trip was scary -- ?could I get it put back together? ?what if something went wrong? Now, I'm pretty comfortable with the assembly/disassembly.
I love the ride of the bike and it fits me well. Waterford is a steel bike. When I first starting looking, I wanted to go Ti, but the steel rides well.
Note: Terry's semi-custom line is made by Waterford. That might give you a slightly more cost effective solution.
2009 Waterford RS-14 S&S Couplers - Brooks B68-Anatomica - Traveller
2008 Waterford RS-33 - Brooks B68-Anatomica - Go Fast
2012 Waterford Commuter - Brooks B68-Anatomica - 3.5-Season/Commuter
2011 Surly Troll - Brooks B68 Imperial - Snow Beast