OT: My world is upside down

[wabisabi]

Sorry to hear about this and I hope that you don't get overwhelmed, BUT remember that the standard for custody is the "best interest of the child," which does not at ALL mean the one who can provide the most materially. Courts in most states also have a report on the home as a part of the process, and your involvement with you children and the environment that you provide will be taken into account, so don't despair.