FGG, I mostly just lurk these days but just wanted to send you a hug and encouragement. I used to be in a women's support group - most were going through divorice, I was a kid with other problems to hash out. The most important things I remember from those days - take REALLY good care of yourself, now more than ever, (someone who advises me calls it "extreme self care" - to counter the extreme demands on your psyche) and yes, keep investigating how to get a lawyer on your side. There WILL be someone who will help you. Don't be too proud to call the social service agencies - that's why we pay taxes - so there's someone to help us get back on our feet when we've been knocked down. Wouldn't hurt to talk to your local women's shelter/domestic violence center. While you may not have been physically hurt, x is really stealing from you! - and again, you might find some savvy women who can tell you how to get legal help.

A better day is coming.