talk me down off the ledge, please

[Crankin]

I absolutely hate the use of ma'm, or sir for that matter. It feels rooted in subservience. When we moved to Florida, the first time someone in a store called my mom (who was 38 and looked about 12) ma'm, she very loudly said, "Who are you talking to?"

[Irulan]

For me, whenever the internal discussion turns to hair color, the cost of color and maintaining it puts it at dead halt. For me.

[malkin]

For me, whenever the internal discussion turns to hair color, the cost of color and maintaining it puts it at dead halt. For me.

Me too.
I kind of want to dread my grey mop top, but...really... I always seem to have something better to do than do my hair, so I just keep not getting around to it.