Man don't you hate it when men the SOB's do that to you. I would have to say that you need to find a new LBS. And like Irulan said talk to the manager and let him know what you think of his employee. Hopefully he is not the SOB but then if he is let him have it with both barrels. That is so wrong. Some times I think they (men) think its their sport and only theirs. And woman don't belong. New LBS definitely. Hopefully not a new bike. That is unless you want a new bike.
As I have learned on this board that you can't have too many bikes.

Good luck.
And babe you are not the moron HE IS.