I have a similar build and after years of being on the wrong size bikes, I had a retul fit done- it was the best money spent. I learned I need a tall stack- so for me a 140-150 headtube, being with that- I was able to actually go on a little longer top tube then I ever thought. I found that the Ridley Noah RS fit well, I now have an Orbea Orca Dama and love it.

While researching, I also discovered that the Felt women's series would of fit along with the Focus women's series.

Look into some of those