lauraelmore1033, oh my goodness. No advice, but wanted to send you good wishes for continued healing and recovery. How frustrating for you at this point! You still have lots and lots of time before bike riding season though to get stronger and feel better. 
I was THIS close to having a procedure myself last winter...and opted out at the last minute (chickened out?). But in my case it is not so serious to wait (basically endometriosis)...I may still do it eventually, but feel I can wait for now. At 55 I wasn't sure I would be recovered in time to do the STP last summer and RSVP and I so badly wanted to do both those rides.
Good luck on your healing! Please let us know how you are getting along, I in particular, am really interested to hear how you do.
"Don't go too fast, but I go pretty far"