I WAS married to someone like that. I knew that no matter what, I couldn't trust him to take care of anything important. So, he never did.

Honestly, your husband is the way he is. You can't change who he is at his core. He doesn't get stuff done... on time. Period.

You can't change him, you can only change your reaction to him.

And, if you know there is something you need done on time and done right, don't let him do it, because you know it will drive you nuts worrying about if he got it done or not (and he probably hasn't).

Best of luck.