My older son went to the UK, Scotland, and Wales with the HS band. He came back bitten by the travel bug. He had previously only been to French speaking Canada on his 8th grade French trip. My other son, at that age only cared about racing his bike, but since joining the military, he has traveled extensively, and not just to horrible places. His wife also loves to travel. I agree with Mimi. You can plan for travel abroad, just like anything else. I know many, many people who save for things like a family trip to Disney World, which costs a fortune, and in my mind has no redeeming value, especially if you really have to scrimp and save for it. I know it's a question of values, but there are 2 things I regret not doing as my kids were growing up. One is doing family outdoor activities like hiking overnights and more camping, as well as bike trips, and doing more travel to places other than Cape Cod or back to AZ. The thing is, my kids love outdoor stuff, went to an Audubon overnight camp that emphasized ecology and independent outdoor activity rather than team stuff and would have taken to that type of lifestyle. Sure, we didn't have as much money then, but we could have saved for things other than what we did at the time.
Thankfully, I didn't turn into my parents and my kids ended up liking adventure.



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