Ok I went down to my LBS this morning and rode a ton of bikes. I need a larger frame than anyone thought, but after my fitting they realized that my legs are a lot longer than they thought. So the most comfortable bike was a Specialized Women's XL frame on a Dolce.....but I can't get a triple crank in that bike. So they are going to order me a Specialized Rube Elite Apex Compact in my frame size to try. The Apex has an 11-32 cassette that would give me a lower gear than some of the other and I liked the SRAM Apex shifters better too. They said they can't even get one for about 3 weeks so they would call me. I am under no obligation to purchase the bike if I decide it is not what I want....so right now I am waiting. I love me LBS though for all the help and for not making me commit to the bike they are ordering. Will update when I get a chance.