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    DH is one of the ones who doesn't get this. He thinks the rules for simultaneous arrival apply all the time. So he stops, waits for someone to pull up and stop on his left, then waits for them to go. I can't explain it to him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OakLeaf View Post
    DH is one of the ones who doesn't get this. He thinks the rules for simultaneous arrival apply all the time. So he stops, waits for someone to pull up and stop on his left, then waits for them to go. I can't explain it to him.
    That's too funny, Oak! I hope you don't live someplace with a lot of four-way stops.

    Before I moved to Franklin, I didn't encounter 4-ways on a regular basis as most of the streets in and around downtown have lights. Plus, roundabouts are becoming increasingly common in some of the areas where I traveled most frequently.

    Then I moved to Franklin where there's a four-way stop nearly every block. It drives me nuts. People run them with abandon or just can't wait their turn. I've started to have some anticipatory anxiety at one stop I hit each morning because someone proceeds out-of-turn nearly every day. It's a big intersection so you really have to be mindful. Sigh; yet another reason to dislike where I live.

    And does anybody go the speed limit anymore? I don't mind traveling a bit above, but I really don't want a ticket and I'm not convinced speeding gets me where I'm going any faster (or safer) anyway, as there are so many traffic lights. But jeez-o-pete people are aggressive and impatient. If people want to speed, I can't stop them, but I really hate it when they tailgate me in an effort to make their irritation known.
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    Dear DH,

    So you're home for 10 days and in all of that time you somehow couldn't find time to take the dog to the vet to get the paperwork started on his international transport requirements, so instead on your last day home you make an appointment for ME to take the dog to the vet.

    And it's not like the baby is old enough to stay home alone, so he had to come along too. And the dog is overprotective of us so he freaks out the moment we step in the office. Next time I will leave it to you to muzzle an overprotective dog while the baby is screaming.

    Thankfully the vet's exam rooms are very clean. But given a choice I'll try not to breastfeed there again.

    Next time, maybe I will decline to do this at all, and the dog will just have to stay behind.

    You owe me, big time.

    Love,
    Your wife
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    Dear my pack-rat tendencies:
    Please take a break for a while. After helping my brother move this week, I realize it's time for a good clear-out. An amazing amount of junk has built up over the 12 years in this house.

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    Dear People I Works With--

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    And then you wonder if everyone is going to like it.

    Well, it's bold and progressive. So the answer is "no, not everyone is going to like it."

    Make up your mind: "bold and progressive" or "neutral and like every other cover"?

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    Dear Mother of my sister's groom:

    Did your dress really have to be the exact same color as mine?

    Signed,
    Frustrated

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    Dear Designers of the MUP in Seattle,
    Did you really have to put 90 degree turns and hard stops in the hill paths? How about some nice warnings painted on the path? Give me the spray paint and I'll do it.

    There's a trail that I don't ever want to do again, because frankly as designed, it's dangerous.
    Beth

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    Dear Universe,

    Please stop. I'm worn out and am rapidly approaching the end of my rope.

    The job transfer that I was so excited about... did you have to make it implode yesterday? Couldn't the new boss have just been honest about the physical requirements before I walked away from my long term stable job? Now my bad knee is killing me and HR is scrambling to find a temp placement for me until something permanent can be arranged. Being in limbo work wise while dealing with my mom is just too much; I'm very tired of crying and could really use a break.

    Signed, are you kidding me?

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    (((Pax))). I'm so sorry you're hurting.
    Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.

    --Mary Anne Radmacher

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    (((((Pax))))))

    I'm so sorry that you're dealing with all of this
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    (((((((Pax)))))))

    Hoping things brighten up for you very soon.
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    Thanks gals, I just need some room to breathe, but the hits keeps coming. I'm so tired.

    Electra Townie 7D

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    (((Pax))) hope things ease soon!

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    Dear AmEx,

    I sincerely hope that the application procedure and ensuing debacle is not indicative of your normal level of customer service. My poor DH has made 5 different phone calls, talked to at least 6 different people, been told at least 3 different things, wasted at least 2 hours on the phone, and we still don't have a resolution to our issue.

    The letter to your executive office is going in the mail just as soon as we get our promised phone call on Monday. We've never been treated so poorly by a financial institution, and someone needs to know about it.

    Sincerely,
    So Angry She Can't See Straight

 

 

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