I went back to the LBS, and they adjusted the cleats further back, plus sold me a different insole for $70. I get out on my bike, and less than an hr my feet are tingling away going numb again, sooooo frustrating!.
I ended up making the laces just above the toes as loose as possible, plus I replaced the insert with my old orthotic's and the problem substantially reduced. I think the shoes needed a breaking in period, it seems they are stretching out with wear making them more comfortable. I also started wiggling the toes around every 15 min and that seems to help a lot.
Managed to get my first crash out of the way. Got way to cocky with the clipped in shoes, and didn't give myself enough time to unclip. Ended up sprawled on the pavement with the bike on top of me. If this has ever happened to you, you know it's quite difficult to unclip your feet when your in that position. The good news is the bike is fine, however my elbow and hip ended up with road rash. The hubby offered up his hockey elbow pads as a solution for further crashes. I told him he was retarded, to which he muttered something about he wasent the one with skin missing......