Thanks for all the responses!! Apparently, this is not normal. I'll be switching doctors. I know I could just demand to only go once a year, but the whole situation has me a little weirded out. He was an OK doctor, nothing special. I had to wait a really long time (about an hour) in a gown in a freezing room last time I went and he didn't apologize for the wait. That annoyed me a little. I don't mind waiting but let me wait in the waiting room where there are magazines and I'm not freezing in a paper thin gown!! Time to start shopping for a new doctor!

lol....about the monogamous relationship...very good info but I think DH and I both would have an issue if this were the reason