Have you gone to a different fitter; somebody not otherwise affiliated with the LBS where you bought the bike? It might be time for a fresh set of eyes. It could be that you'll find a different set of brifters to be more comfortable. If I were you, I'd go to a handful of bike shops, preferably ones that offer bikes build up with Shimano, Campy and SRAM and just see how your hand fits with each of them.
I do know how you feel. I have some Campy hoods on my Bianchi that I love, love, love. They changed the design a couple years later, and I just never liked them as well.
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