ny biker-
"I think you are better off talking to your husband than to us. You would have a better chance of knowing what is really bothering him instead of speculating."


I did try talking to my husband. In fact, his lack of reasonable response is what prompted me to write originally. I mentioned at least once that he cuts me off when I bring it up (but is otherwise supportive and encouraging with my cycling). I posted here to see if I could get some perspective on the situation, and to see if any other women had experiences similar to mine.

Looks like I may get my chance today, as we are soon going to be hitting the road to go to a baseball game. Even though we are going to be heading in to SF, it is the weekend and who knows what the traffic is going to be like. Captive audience?