For what it's worth, I've had Speedplay X on my road bike for 7 years. I love them. I like the total float, no tension setting. I switched from SPDs and I had no issues.
Fast forward to this year when I built a custom road bike more for tours and long rides where I need very low gears. I wanted recessed cleats for this bike and got the Frogs. I had a real adjustment period as I kept unclipping accidentally. I also had trouble knowing if I was really all the way clipped in. After DH told me to keep my heels in, it got better and now I can hear the click sound when clipping in. It's just very passive compared to the Xs or other pedals.
2015 Trek Silque SSL
Specialized Oura
2011 Guru Praemio
Specialized Oura
2017 Specialized Ariel Sport