Quote Originally Posted by Tri Girl View Post
I will shamefully admit that when I was VERY overweight, I hated eating around thinner people who ate healthy because it was a reminder of how fat and unhealthy *I* was and that really bothered me deep down and made me feel bad about myself. They did nothing wrong and it was no fault of theirs, but their healthy choices made me feel bad about my unhealthy ones and that came across as me being judgemental (although I don't know that I was ever snarky about it or ever said anything rude to anyone about their choices). Does that make sense?
Yes! I think you articulated it very well.

I have a generally healthy diet, but am overweight. I feel like when I have a rare splurge (e.g., going out for ice cream on my birthday), people are judging me. They aren't. It's clearly my issue.