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  1. #1
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    I am so sorry for your loss. And I cannot think of a better gift to yourself in the midst of grief. Nothing heals like being under the great open sky, watching the changing scenes go by as you pedal. Your father is there, in all of it. Big hugs to you.
    Leah
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    2012 Trek Madone 5.2 WSD C
    2009 Surly LHT
    "I thought of that while riding my bicycle."
    ~ Albert Einstein on the Theory of Relativity

  2. #2
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    Nov 2007
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    I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your father.

    This ride is very significant for you-- ride with heart, strength and best of memories.
    My Personal blog on cycling & other favourite passions.
    遙知馬力日久見人心 Over a long distance, you learn about the strength of your horse; over a long period of time, you get to know what’s in a person’s heart.

  3. #3
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    May 2012
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    Hira, I lost a friend suddenly last week. It was shocking and I couldn't even accept it for days. I can't imagine how it is when it's your parent. I really feel for you. It's bad when you can't even look forward to that which usually makes you feel better but hopefully, time and activity will heal you. I'll be thinking peaceful thoughts of you and wishing you the best this summer.
    2013: Riding a Dolce sport compact for fun and a vintage Jetter with cargo rack for commuting

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  4. #4
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    Hi Hira! That sounds like an incredible tribute. I am sorry that you lost someone dear to you.

    I recently had a man stay with me who does about 8,000 miles per summer fully loaded. He does it to raise awareness for Blue Planet Network and told me every year that he rides himself into shape and just takes it easy the first week. Have you checked out Warm Showers? I bet there are some Team E ladies that would host you both on the route. I know I would!

    I am riding the northern tier this summer but it's a supported ride for the American Lung Association and it's West to East. There are a few riders on our trip doing it to honor someone they lost recently... and I just think it's incredible and wonderful that they are doing it for them.

    Good luck to you!
    Help me reach my $8,000 goal for the American Lung Association! Riding Seattle to D.C. for clean air! http://larissaridesforcleanair.org
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  5. #5
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    ((((((hirakukibou))))))

    Touring is wonderful for healing. May you find peace on the road.
    Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler

  6. #6
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    (((Hirakukibou)))

    I am very sorry for your loss, and your tour is an awesome idea. May it bring healing, peace, and comfort to you.

  7. #7
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    May you have beautiful sunsets and sweet tailwinds on your journey. Encourage you to keep a journal, private or public - your choice. I promise to smile and laugh today in honor of you and your Dad.
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  8. #8
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    Jan 2006
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    Massachusetts
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    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. You've been planning your tour for a long time, and it will now be a healing journey as well as all the other things you wanted it to be.
    Oil is good, grease is better.

    2007 Peter Mooney w/S&S couplers/Terry Butterfly
    1993 Bridgestone MB-3/Avocet O2 Air 40W
    1980 Columbus Frame with 1970 Campy parts
    1954 Raleigh 3-speed/Brooks B72

 

 

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