When we bought me a road bike (hadn't seriously ridden since before I got my driver's license!!) I had a lot of trouble with getting comfortable on the bike. The seat always seemed like it was pushing on my spot.
Luckily the guys at my LBS are great and they quickly adjusted the tilt, forwardness, etc to give me a better ride.
One of the things that REALLY helped (and thus the reason for my posting) was to put a shorter stem on the hadlebars so that I was not always stretched out and reaching so far forward, thereby tilting the hips and putting pressure on the .
Just a thought that I wanted to share!