Whatever you decide to do Zoom-Zoom, I know you will be awesome and have a great time.

I have to ride by myself if I want to ride - trail or road. I am just too slow and I've ridden by myself so long now that I am uncomfortable riding with others. There is no other choice so I just learned to do it. I can certainly understand not wanting to do it if you have a choice in the matter, and I am sure you can work something out with your DH when he understands how important it is to you.

I am trying to change that for myself this summer, trying to make myself get over the shyness and go to group rides, and to at least ask friends who happen to be cyclists if they would like to go on an occasional ride. Part of me hates to ask since my speed is so slow (<14mph) but it would be nice sometimes