I use Magic Shaving Powder (it's a depilatory designed for black men's facial hair, but it's very gentle "down there." You just mix it to a pudding-like consistency with water, slather it on, leave for 7 minutes, then scrape off). I'm starting to seriously contemplate laser hair removal, though. I seem to get chafed really badly by my own hair. I'd probably leave a "landing strip," but otherwise go sort of Brazilian.