I don't have a problem with a mini-van from a "how it looks to others" perspective. I don't care if folks think I'm uncool, though I am far from a soccer mom; don't even have kids! BUT, the starting price on a good one (Honda or Toyota) is higher than any car we've ever owned, so we'd definitely have to find a used one as we just don't like spending a ton of money on cars. Would much rather save our pennies for bikes and bike gear! We've never bought anything but new cars in the past, but less expensive models like Honda CRX and Honda Element, and the 2-door Rav4.

And DH *might* have a problem driving a mini-van around, since we'd be sharing the vehicle. Not sure. If he doesn't care, a used one could work. They definitely have the cargo space and the comfort factor boxes ticked.

Will definitely look at Rav4s since it's been many, many years since we owned one, and they've changed a lot. 4Runners are definitely too rich for us and gas mileage too low.