Sometimes we do get into things because of our DHs'/SOs but you have stayed with it and set goals within the sport that you want to achieve - I'd say you're doing this for yourself! and wow - some goals my friend! Good luck with every one of them.

As for the dating scene, I've been single for 6 yrs now and can't think of a reason why I would want to change that! I am so enjoying my freedom!! But I wish you all the best on that scene too - being alone isn't for everyone.

and know we're always here for you!! {{{{{{darby}}}}