I went through saddle hell for 2 years.

I also spend a lot of money on saddles.

The only saddle that has worked for me is the Adamo touring saddle. It looks really weird on my bike and uncool but it has enabled me to ride comfortably.

My seat bones are really far apart and this one is 190mm wide. It also has no nose on it.

I was literally numb and had problems peeing for days after a ride before this saddle.

I also recommend a bike fitting. My fitting was the best money ever spent as it was not only the saddle causing my problems but other things as well.