I've tried re-doing it 3 times today. I know this is gross, but the sound it makes when it comes out is pretty loud. I've been making sure no-one else is in the bathroom when I go in there. I just experienced that pinching the girly bits thing. Most unpleasant. I'm not giving up yet, though. Everyone here seems so enthralled with this thing - and it has got to be better than tampons. I'll try squatting when I get home. At least is hasn't leaked