Veronica--you are totally right to be frustrated. You have done everything you can 110%. I do not disagree with you.

We have excellent teachers at our kids school. They put so much time and energy into their work and into creating a positive and effective learning environment for the kids.

. . . but sometimes I miss things. I don't mean to. I just do. DD has a stack of papers two inches thick every night.

I've started asking DD about events and important papers. That's helped. She's good at remembering once I ask her.