Isn't there a multi-focal lens on the market now? When I had mine done over 10 years ago (I was only in my 40s) I also had to choose, and chose to have good distance vision. I have not regretted that decision; it's so nice to be able to drive and be active without glasses. I don't find it "too" irritating to wear reading glasses and keep several pair all over the house, a couple of pair at work, and always have a pair in my purse. I even keep a pair in my seat bag on my bike!

KB