Crankin for the win! (Wahine hit it pretty close, too).

For the past two days, my H has been MUCH better. What he does hasn't changed all that much, but his attitude has. I asked him last night why the change of heart and he came clean about how he was feeling before.

He said he felt resentful that he had to do everything even though I was here (he's used to doing everything when I travel). He felt it wasn't fair and being perfectly honest with me, he said it irritated him. In addition, he doesn't like weakness and it really threw him for a loop to see me 'needy'. Upon reflection, it makes sense. He doesn't handle it well when I am sick, either. Luckily, that doesn't happen much!

He said he had a 'talk' with himself. He realized he was just being selfish and that this 1) wasn't on purpose!, 2) wasn't the end of the world and 3) is only temporary. Things around here are so much improved with is new attitude. It's a big relief for me too because I have zero idea how I'm going to react to the surgery and recovery. At least now I know that I don't have to worry about him too.