And, I wanted to add that I have been married for 32 years...
Cycling is the first sport that DH and I have shared. While we have enjoyed many other things together, we have really made cycling/outdoor activity the focus of what we do. Some people think we are weird, in that we prefer being together rather than doing things alone. However, some of the cycling related things that I have done alone (like TE, riding with the group I found) have enhanced what we do together a lot. In fact, I think these things have influenced DH to be more of the kind of cyclist I am. He occasionally rides with the group, but it is still more my thing. Perhaps some of this is just getting older, but DH will always be stronger than me and I accept that.