Quote Originally Posted by Irulan View Post
Volunteering for something you are interested in is a good way to meet people. I've met some of my best mountain biking buddies at trail building projects.
+1. I think volunteering is good for the soul on a number of levels. Even if you don't end up meeting any close friends, it will at least get you out of the house and interacting with new people.

I feel your pain. As I've detailed in other threads, my move in 2009 to a smaller town 25 miles south of where I used to live and continue to work has been difficult. While I still technically have my old group of friends, it's far harder to see them on a regular basis, and I haven't made any real friends in my new town. It's lonely and challenging. I haven't come up with a great solution as this issue relates to me.

At my age, kids are the biggest common denominator among women...and I have none. But I think Irulan's and azfiddle's suggestions are good ones. Check out your local library for book clubs, too, or any other club that appeals to your interests.

Even without moving to a new location, I've gone through periods of time where I needed to make new friends. When I was in that position, I said "yes" to as many social or civic opportunities as I could. It does take persistence. So, even if it feels like one of the avenues you're already trying isn't paying off, I'd stick with it. It just takes that one person to suddenly make you feel less lonely.

Good luck and hugs to you!