Indysteel (and everyone else with thyroid issues), sorry you are dealing with this.

It took me years to actually get diagnosised with graves, then 6 months on a low dose of PTU has put me in remission for 5 years but it was a FIGHT!

The first thing I'd recommend is looking at Elaine Moores website: http://www.elaine-moore.com/. Looks of good info and if you email her labs with questions she will answer She is not a dr but considered an expert on thryoid disease.

Next you need to chart, if you haven't, your labs and dosage. Meds changes can take up to 6 weeks to show up in your lab work so don't make adjustments too fast and most meds will require you to be weaned off of them.

As far as what is normal - normal is all relative. My "normal" body temperature is 97.8. Know your body and how it reacts so that you can talk in a factual, nonemotional way to your dr. You should have a good relationship with your endo/internal to the point of having a standing rx for your labs when you feel they need to be checked.

Most dr. will treat you in a way that is most convenient for them, from my experience. Unfortunately, most patients are noncompliant so if you feel you want to be treated a certain way you need to stand up for yourself.

I'm not a dr. (and I don't play one on tv) but if you are hyper your tsh shouldn't be so high. Mine is almost non existant (so I'm on the verve of going hyper again). Keep asking questions, doing research, and find the right person to treat you. You should feel like you normally do. Hair loss, hot flashes, heat intolance, not being able to sleep, mood swings, fatigue, heart palpations, etc. all mean you're not in your normal range. I feel the best when I'm at the high end of the normal range for my Ft3 and FT4.

Hope that helps and I wasn't just rambling Good luck with it - it is definitely a process.