Dear So and So

[indysteel]

Alexis, I'm so sorry you're having relationship troubles. And here's my tough love advice. When our "weird quirks" repeatedly disrupt our relationships, it's arguably time to talk to a professional about them. I wish it was just a matter of finding people who understand and tolerate our issues, but I know from personal experience that that isn't a great long-term solution. So, I would urge you to talk to a therapist and if you already have, keep working at it. Good luck in your journey.

[Crankin]

That's very astute advice, Indy.

[Biciclista]

to whom it may concern.
happy new year!! Let's all hope for a less difficult one.

[malkin]

Yes.
Aim high; let's hope for a really fun, joyous, healthy and uncomplicated one while we're at it!

[alexis_the_tiny]

Thanks for the advice, Indy. I was working with a therapist until late last year when money ran out, now saving up to pay for therapy again, hopefully, this time, money doesn't run out. Despite all the social skills stuff I've learned, some days I feel like this cartoon character who tries to do everything right but screws it all up and everything goes wrong anyway...

[indysteel]

I feel that way sometimes, too, Alexis. Maybe many of us do. I'm happy you're making your way back to therapy.

[Biciclista]

not me. No cartoon character here; Job's wife instead!