You should keep an open mind, Brandi. Anxiety is a disabling thing and sometimes you need more than one thing to help make it go away. And, many of the natural remedies and herbs are unproven and could be dangerous. Some of the natural things that do work for many people are controlled breathing, meditation, yoga, progressive muscle relaxation, as well as learning what your triggers are for anxiety, keeping a thought journal, and yoga.
What you mentioned before, about your mother is really important. Even though you made the choice to separate yourself from her and lead a healthy lifestyle, with a supportive spouse, the fact is that anyone who experiences living with an alcoholic parent, abandonment, or any neglect at a young age has experienced trauma. It stays deep inside of our brains and can affect us in the most mysterious ways, anxiety being one. I have seen this over and over again in my work. While Al-Anon is a great support group, it really doesn't address these issues.
I suggest you work with a therapist who is knowledgeable in holistic strategies, but also has connections with a prescriber who is a psychiatrist, not your GP or gynecologist. PM me if you want more information.