I wish I knew what to expect! It's mostly Chanukah at our house but my DH's family celebrates Christmas. His family is unconventional and unpredictable. I am guessing we will be at his brother's apartment because that is closer to the care home where his mom lives.

All I know is we are making a 2 hour drive to Phoenix sometime after noon.... otherwise I am completely out of the loop. Guess I will try to get my DH to call his brother and sister so I know what the plan is, and what we need to contribute.