Well I might be joining the peri club!

[yellow]

Hang in there, girl. A bunch of us are with you. I was in the tampon-an-hour club before I finally had it and sought a remedy for that. It was absolutely, completely ridiculous. Talk to you doc about ways to deal with that.

I recently went back to my doc whining about a lot of the same things--ridiculously exhausted even though I have cut back on exercise in an attempt to "rest up" (completely ridiculous, as in I had to lie on the floor under my desk at work often because I just could not stand up any more), crazy mood swings, inability to sleep normally, and depression unlike any I've ever experienced. She did some blood work and most everything was normal, but my ferratin was low. I'm not anemic (all the other indicators were completely normal), but just low iron. Also, she found an interesting thing in the blood work: extremely high Vitamin D, as in on the way to toxicity. We figured out that it's probably my calcium supplement (most calcium supplements also have D in them) coupled with the fact that I am outdoors a LOT, so she instructed me to find a calcium supplement without D (I do not eat/drink any dairy, so a supplement is important for me). So who knows...could be some weird stuff like that going on.

Hopefully your blood work will give you some good information!

[Brandi]

Wow lot's of stuff to read here and remember what ? were asked here. First and foremost I do not get my periods because I have an iud that stopped them. So that might be a plus since my whole life my periods were way not normal. Can't tell you how many pregger's tests I bought because of it. Even on birth control they were not normal.
i promise I will not go lightly into medication without much research and a hopeful natural alternative first. But it could not be it at all I might just REALLY need a vacation. lol.But I believe something is off though.
I wish I could do yoga all day long that and riding my bike really help level me out.
I just want my energy back more then anything. I am off coffee and tea. That always gave me energy but I know it does not help.
Thank you all for your advice. I was hoping for more positive feedback but it sounds like it's not good. Sigh........of coarse my mom said it was no big deal for her. But she probably drank her way through it.

[PamNY]

Thank you all for your advice. I was hoping for more positive feedback but it sounds like it's not good.

Brandi, nothing bad whatsoever happened to me. Really, I never even thought about "perimenopause" or had any symptoms of any kind.

I'd be really careful about attributing mental or emotional challenges to hormones.

[Irulan]

Brandi, nothing bad whatsoever happened to me. Really, I never even thought about "perimenopause" or had any symptoms of any kind.

I'd be really careful about attributing mental or emotional challenges to hormones.

It certainly depends and if you haven't been there, you wouldn't know or understand it. Part of my mood diagnoses are directly related to my cycles. This determination is made by my MD Psych, and the management plan is to not attempt to function without some medication assistance until my periods have completely stopped. This may not be the case for everyone, but it certainly is real and a problem for some people.

[indysteel]

Honestly, there are a lot of things at play here: brain chemistry, various types of hormones, perimenopause, upbringing, family history, personality, etc. Any number of things could cause the cluster of symptoms that the OP is experiencing, and our own experiences with this or that are only so instructive. I think the best thing at this point is for Brandi to go her doctor or doctors with an open mind. Listen carefully, take notes, ask questions, do some independent research depending on what any tests or assessments reveal, ask some more questions. Hopefully, there will be some clear answer as to what's wrong and an effective treatment.

[Brandi]

Honestly, there are a lot of things at play here: brain chemistry, various types of hormones, perimenopause, upbringing, family history, personality, etc. Any number of things could cause the cluster of symptoms that the OP is experiencing, and our own experiences with this or that are only so instructive. I think the best thing at this point is for Brandi to go her doctor or doctors with an open mind. Listen carefully, take notes, ask questions, do some independent research depending on what any tests or assessments reveal, ask some more questions. Hopefully, there will be some clear answer as to what's wrong and an effective treatment.

Yes I agree. Blood tests were done this morning after fasting should have hopefully some answer tomorrow. Feeling better just being proactive about it. Was not before...i was fighting it and going to the Doc. I don't know why I do that except out of fear I guess. Unreasonable fear too and I know it. It always seems once I go and see the Dr I feel better. Go figure. I need to be kinder to myself.

[Brandi]

Brandi, nothing bad whatsoever happened to me. Really, I never even thought about "perimenopause" or had any symptoms of any kind.

I'd be really careful about attributing mental or emotional challenges to hormones.

That is really good to know. You always hear the bad side of things like this and I know there are people who have had good experiences too. Or I should say it didn't bother them.

[shootingstar]

I didn't pay attention to this thread until now and realized what the topic was about.

So far, past 3 yrs. I haven't had bad experiences being in peri. For past few months, I just wake up with a flushed face in morning, 1-2 times per wk. and then in 5 min. the warmth is over. It's not even a hot flash for me. Just a warm cosy feeling.

Yes, am fading away period-wise.

Any emotional stuff is not attributed to that, I've had some major personal changes going on in life for past year.

[Brandi]

Sooooo not part of the club just yet. But the mental ward if I don't relax. I feel lame that I can't control this anxiety sometimes. Sigh.....They want me to take zoloft or something like it. I am going to look into natural remedies first as well as talk to my acupuncturist. He does chinese herbs for this and that. Also I am going to just relax from here on out.I know I can get over this myself.
I needed to know my body was not suffering from anything but my brain. If that makes since. PVC can be scary. But maybe now that once again I know I am physically ok I will start feeling better. Hormones are great, good LDL, all just where it should be and better so that is good. Now relax silly! And start counting those blessing's!
Thanks again for listening to me ladies. Merry Christmas!! XOXO

[owlice]

So you'll take "natural remedies" and "chinese herbs" that are not tested for safety and efficacy, but you won't take medication that is?? That seems ... ah.... backwards to me.

Sometimes I see people waving around the phrase "it's natural" as though that translates to "safe." Poisonous mushrooms and hemlock are natural, though definitely not a good idea.

I get PVCs, too, and when I feel them, I take a really deep breath and then exhale; if that doesn't stop them, I cough. Doing one or both of these things nearly always makes them stop.

I hope you feel better soon!