tips for better mammogram?

[redrhodie]

I've been keeping busy, but I thought I'd update. I got a call today from the wife of a guy I ride with, who also had BC, and is my age. It was so nice of her to call me, because we've never met. I got a lot of info, and she's going to be a great resource for names of doctors for second opinions, should I need them, and I think we're going to be good friends. Having this in common, at this age, is an instant connection. She's going to be a great asset. Now, if I can get her to the Sat ride...

Monday is the day when I get the pathology report, and the recommendation from my doc on how to proceed, based on all the tests and the board review. I've been reading a lot so I'll be capable of understanding all the info, and a friend is coming with me to the appt to take notes. I've learned a lot in these few weeks. That's been kind of cool. I know about stuff I'll never need to know, just in case.

Telling people is really interesting. I can't really predict how they will react, but when I think about it later, it makes sense. One good friend, who is amazing in her ALWAYS upbeat attitude, who never gets even a little depressed, said something to the effect of a mastectomy being a bowl of cherries, compared to some of the alternatives. The same day, another friend was horrified that I might have to have that, and understood the fear I feel. Lots of creative empathy, because I see both of their points. Good friends have been asking to let them know if there's anything they can do. I realized that I'd probably like hospital visits if I'm in there a while, so I'm telling them that. There's not much else I need.

I'm so lucky.

[Crankin]

I would definitely come and visit while you are recuperating.
Just keep us posted.

[redrhodie]

Crankin, that's so sweet.

[indysteel]

Red, it's sounds like you are doing a wonderful job of taking care if yourself emotional and physically. I am truly in awe of your strength and positive attitude. I mean this sincerely: I really wish I knew you in real life.

Please keep us posted as to the path report.

[pll]

Red, it's sounds like you are doing a wonderful job of taking care if yourself emotional and physically. I am truly in awe of your strength and positive attitude. I mean this sincerely: I really wish I knew you in real life.

Please keep us posted as to the path report.

+1. Best wishes, Red.

I will add that I wish I knew many of the women here in real life. [Thank you Team Estrogen for bringing together such a fantastic community.]

[redrhodie]

Thanks, guys. The feeling is absolutely mutual! I think of you as good friends. I wouldn't be surprised if our paths meet someday.

[indysteel]

+1. Best wishes, Red.

I will add that I wish I knew many of the women here in real life. [Thank you Team Estrogen for bringing together such a fantastic community.]

That is very true. I wish we could have a TE convention!!

[OakLeaf]

Great idea bringing a friend tomorrow. Hope it goes well and you can make decisions you're comfortable with. Keeping the hugs and healing wishes flowing.