Why can't I get mad?

[jobob]

Consider yourself lucky. I work so hard to be able to react like you did naturally. I can get really enraged, especially on the bike, and it ain't pretty. It's really embarrassing, and I always regret it later.

Heh. *I* could have written this.

Antaresia, you always have us to vent and commiserate with you.

[Crankin]

Yeah, DH pounded the side of a car that was yelling at me, who was in front and riding inside the white line of a wide shoulder, about 3 miles from our house, a couple of summers ago. I was doing absolutely nothing wrong. The guy almost hit me on purpose and just went nuts. He pulled over and motioned for us to stop, so we did, thinking we could educate him. Yeah, right. DH called him a 2 word swear, while I calmly said I was following the law, which enraged him even more. He was going to "fight" my DH, which was laughable (he would not have won), as it would have been a battle between 2 middle aged high tech geeks. Anyway, the guy had his young teenaged son in the car, who was mortified, and told his dad to get going and give it up.
After that incident, we have not had any more car punching.

[Owlie]

I'm going to go with everyone else. It's far safer to react the way that you did than to get angry.

[Antaresia]

I know my fairly un-motivated temper has come in useful at times, I'd like to think I always come out ahead when faced with more volatile people & their tantrums.

Other times I wish I was able to express how mad I feel. This was one of those times, even if it was smarter to just stay cool...I want to explode. I want that incompetent drive to know how angry she made me.

Thanks for listening to my rant, I can only hope some good came of the situation, and that the drive will be more careful in the future. If I wasn't paying attention, I would have gotten hit, and I know not everyone (myself included) is 100% attentive at every intersection.