Are you talking about sending money to everyone else but not this one nephew?

My oldest nephew is 20 and in college. I'm thinking I will probably stop sending gifts after each niece or nephew turns 21. But it will be based on age, not anything else, and one rule will be applied equally to all of them.

I don't know if it's helpful, but there was some recent stuff in Carolyn Hax's advice column and online chat that might be relevant. First letter here:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifest...r9N_print.html

And comments regarding "Trivial gifts" here:

http://live.washingtonpost.com/carol...211/print.html