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**jobob** · 12-07-2011, 11:19 PM

Whee, lots of spammers tonight!

"Take only some light to eat..only eat fruits and green veg. to recover early.... "

Huh?? Oh, nevermind.

**lph** · 12-07-2011, 11:58 PM

Originally Posted by jobob

Whee, lots of spammers tonight!

"Take only some light to eat..only eat fruits and green veg. to recover early.... "

Huh?? Oh, nevermind.

How to Loss your Fat, no less!

I've always wondered how to do that.

**indysteel** · 12-09-2011, 04:32 PM

Since being diagnosed with Graves Disease over the summer, I have kept an eye on my resting heartrate. It was running 20-30 beats higher than normal before I started anti-thyroid meds. I have also been running pretty regularly. Today my heartrate measured 49 bpm. That is definitely more like it.

**NbyNW** · 12-09-2011, 05:55 PM

Well done, Indy!

My dad was diagnosed with Graves in 2004 and I know there was a lot of art + science that went into getting his health straightened out. There was a lot of trial and error for a few years, but he has been doing well as of late.

Keep up the great work!

**Pax** · 12-09-2011, 06:01 PM

Well, that was fun. Diagnosed with my second UTI in two months, after 20 years without one. I guess as we age we get drier, and our bladders can tip a bit, and we can be prone to these. It's ever so much fun having a doc who might be all of 30, ask me "are you sexually active??" and "do you void after sex?".

**indysteel** · 12-09-2011, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by Pax

Well, that was fun. Diagnosed with my second UTI in two months, after 20 years without one. I guess as we age we get drier, and our bladders can tip a bit, and we can be prone to these. It's ever so much fun having a doc who might be all of 30, ask me "are you sexually active??" and "do you void after sex?".

LOL. I went through a phase in my "relations" with my now husband in which I got six or so UTIs in as many months. That was a blast. I now take a prophylactic antibiotic "as needed." I should probably ween myself off of it, but the thought of another UTI, a round of strong antibiotics, and the inevitable yeast infection that follows bums me out too much.

I hope you feel better soon. Keep your fluids up.

**Owlie** · 12-09-2011, 07:06 PM

Feel better, Pax!

This is getting silly: While this belly fat seems to have permanently parked itself here (less of it than there was, which is a good thing), it keeps disappearing from my hips and breasts. I cannot afford new jeans, bras and bike shorts! I have lost some from around my waist, so that's good...

(DBF says that I must be the only woman ever to complain about losing weight. Though in this case, it's not so much weight (4-5lb off what I weighed in high school) as fat loss.)

Okay, I'm done.

**lph** · 12-11-2011, 03:11 AM

Originally Posted by lph

How to Loss your Fat, no less!

I've always wondered how to do that.

Um. Anyone else receive, uh, surprising PM's recently?

**indysteel** · 12-11-2011, 04:03 AM

Originally Posted by lph

Um. Anyone else receive, uh, surprising PM's recently?

None here. Did one of the spammers pm you?

**Fredwina** · 12-13-2011, 02:11 PM

Finally, got Mother moved to Memphis and away from my brother and his kin, who looked at her as their personal salvation army.

Now, comes the fun stuff - managing her finances long distance (unless I get lucky and find a job down there) good thing my furniture is rented. fun, fun, fun!!

**indysteel** · 12-14-2011, 07:23 AM

DH and I were just invited to a Christmas party that is explicitly for the yound child of a friend of his. The child in question is one and a half--not that it matters. Huh? I thought Christmas, in and of itself, was sufficiently "for the kids." Do we now need separate Christmas parties for them, too? I'm so confused.

DH's friend is someone he's known since grade school. He's married to a woman who often refers to herself and her young daughter as "princesses." They live elsewhere, so most of what I know about them, I know through Facebook and the intimate details (often in pictures) that they provide of their princess-like lives. From what I can gather, the world orbits around this child and the mother. So, while I'm not shocked that they are throwing a Christmas party for the child, I do find it a little (or a lot) obnoxious. But, again, maybe I'm just enough out of the loop on parenting as a childless person. If I am, I hope someone will enlighten me. Is this a new trend?

In case it wasn't clear from my snark, we're not going to the party. We've now sent two gifts to this couple for the child (baby shower and post-birth); neither one of which was ever acknowledged, not even in passing. So, the little princess will not receive anything further from us.

**tealtreak** · 12-14-2011, 07:53 AM

Originally Posted by indysteel

DH and I were just invited to a Christmas party that is explicitly for the yound child of a friend of his. The child in question is one and a half--not that it matters. Huh? I thought Christmas, in and of itself, was sufficiently "for the kids." Do we now need separate Christmas parties for them, too? I'm so confused.

DH's friend is someone he's known since grade school. He's married to a woman who often refers to herself and her young daughter as "princesses." They live elsewhere, so most of what I know about them, I know through Facebook and the intimate details (often in pictures) that they provide of their princess-like lives. From what I can gather, the world orbits around this child and the mother. So, while I'm not shocked that they are throwing a Christmas party for the child, I do find it a little (or a lot) obnoxious. But, again, maybe I'm just enough out of the loop on parenting as a childless person. If I am, I hope someone will enlighten me. Is this a new trend?

In case it wasn't clear from my snark, we're not going to the party. We've now sent two gifts to this couple for the child (baby shower and post-birth); neither one of which was ever acknowledged, not even in passing. So, the little princess will not receive anything further from us.

too funny! (and sad) If this is a new trend it hasn't hit Richmond yet....yeah! Maybe it is just that royal family...........I much prefer the kids who have "no gifts, bring food pantry or SPCA donation" parties............

**Crankin** · 12-14-2011, 08:27 AM

Ah, in my limited knowledge of all things Christmas, this is not normal. They sound like swell parents. I'd hate to meet that kid in about 10 years.

**PamNY** · 12-16-2011, 09:14 PM

Originally Posted by indysteel

In case it wasn't clear from my snark, we're not going to the party. We've now sent two gifts to this couple for the child (baby shower and post-birth); neither one of which was ever acknowledged, not even in passing. So, the little princess will not receive anything further from us.

Your gifts should have been acknowledged, but beyond that, I wouldn't judge.

If you don't know these people in person, you can't really determine anything about them. I certainly wouldn't make a judgement based on what they've put on Facebook. What is posted on Facebook could be the opposite of what is going on in reality. It is common for what is reported about family life to be different from the truth.

I'm not sure about the trend question -- does it matter? People have parties for all kinds of silly reasons. I would make no assumptions based on that. For example, many people have "Christmas tree trimming parties," which I find puzzling and mildly repulsive. A party for a child makes more sense than a party for a dead tree.

If you have concerns about how these people are raising their child I would strongly suggest that you make direct, in-person observations.

From what I can tell, the minute a woman gives birth the world sets about judging her -- one reason I decided not to have children.

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