OK, I've tried about six saddles, and the only one that came close to being tolerable was the Cobb V Flow Max, but instead of killing the soft tissue, it killed the inner sides where my legs join up with my torso. So, since my LBS didn't have an Adamo, I ordered one (Adamo Typhoon) on the Net and used it today. THIS IS MY SADDLE!!!! I finally found one. Did a 25 miler on it to test it out and I was thanking the heavens the whole ride. Not only was there no numbness on the girly parts, but the seat is made so your butt immediately gets back into the right place after stops, uphills, etc., so no more fidgeting in the seat. Extremely comfortable also in the drops. Thanks again everyone for all your help!!