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  1. #1
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    Why wasn't there an apology for the unnecessary and uncalled for rude and insulting response to Veronica?
    There was a challenge to a post by the OP, but it neither rude nor insulting, so I found the response to be both and undeserved too.
    IMHO, there is never a good reason to bring that type of behavior nor speak to any TE member in a rude and insulting way. Isn't that what many of us find objectionable on other forums? When someone chooses to deteriorate to insulting, rude comments to another TE member, then don't others of us have to challenge it to keep our experience here one that is enjoyable, educational, and respectful of each other. I'd prefer not to lower that bar; you?

  2. #2
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    Well, maybe I wouldn't have had to respond negatively if Veronica would stop being so negative to me. Like I said in an earlier post, she only speaks up in my threads to criticize me. Why should I be nice to someone who obviously dislikes me? Yeah sure, you can "kill them with kindness", but that doesn't always work. Some personalities clash no matter what.

    For those who wonder why I talk about climbing more than anything else, I have a lifelong condition that I was born with. Cycling, especially hard climbing, is very therapeutic. If I couldn't ride I would be in much worse condition, believe me. That's as much as I'm willing to disclose in a public forum.

  3. #3
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    Let's all step away from our keyboards for a while.

    Luv2 - your first mistake was even going to BF.

    Now, if any of you think there is a problem with another poster, you can put them on ignore. Then you don't have to worry about misinterpreting what they say, and vice versa. There is another handy feature here on TE - the ignore thread. It's awesome, you can completely block threads you don't want to see.
    Last edited by snapdragen; 11-28-2011 at 02:36 PM. Reason: sfsoia

  4. #4
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    Yesterday I apologized to Bostic in the thread on BF (start with post #17). After that he posted the Strava data I was looking for, in case any of you are interested. And yes, he seems very nice. This is the first time I've had any communication with him. Like I said earlier in this thread. I'm not familiar with him or his posts.

    So if any of you are interested you can follow the thread over there. It is a prime example of why I love BF so much. I've been a member there since July 2006, and there are a lot of nice people over there. I ignore the BS threads now and just click on the ones that look more "genuine", if you know what I mean.

    I have learned a valuable lesson from all this drama, and that is to keep any doubts I have to myself. I now know that the NorCal regional subforum is not full of the same BS as some of the other subforums on BF.

    Here's another reason I don't spend a lot of time on TE discussing non-cycling stuff. My father has told me several times that the internet is a "huge time suck". Like most of us, he loves his computers and keeps them updated, but he balances his time on the net with books and other hobbies (he's retired).

    It is possible to waste a tremendous amount of time on the internet. Just the process of editing and uploading videos and photos is time-consuming. First you've got to copy it from the memory card to the computer, which takes several minutes. Then you've got to sift through all the footage and figure out what clips are worth keeping in the editing software. If I use DashWare to overlay the Garmin data onto the video, that's another long process. Then the video has to be rendered and uploaded to YouTube.

    Photos are much quicker to edit and upload, but it still takes a few minutes.

    I will make it a point to post more often around here, but there's only so many threads I can contribute useful information to. If I don't know about a subject, I'm not going to offer advice or an uninformed opinion.

  5. #5
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    Quote Originally Posted by luv2climb View Post
    I now know that the NorCal regional subforum is not full of the same BS as some of the other subforums on BF.
    Yep, the NorCal group is a great bunch. I know you've had a chance to ride with Joel (gawd he's a fast climber!) LanceOldStrong and CCorlew are great to ride with too. If you can, you should join in on the Christmas Eve Diablo ride. It is a beautiful climb and they're a fun, nice group to ride with.

    Veronica
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  6. #6
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    Yes, JoelS was fast! If you saw that ride video I put up on BF back in June, you get to see me get dropped by him. I ran into him at the bottom of Indian Hill Road as I was reaching the top of Newcastle Road. His riding partners were very friendly too.

    Not going to be able to make it to Mt. Diablo, as I have no truck until January. Old one got totalled last month, so I've been car-free all this time. I kind of like it, except that I'm somewhat limited in climbing locations.

  7. #7
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    Quote Originally Posted by luv2climb View Post
    Not going to be able to make it to Mt. Diablo, as I have no truck until January. Old one got totalled last month, so I've been car-free all this time. I kind of like it, except that I'm somewhat limited in climbing locations.
    Well, that's a bummer. Not hurt I hope.

    NorCal BF seems to have an informal group ride most weekends, so maybe once you're vehicle enabled again.

    Veronica
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  8. #8
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    It is possible to waste a tremendous amount of time on the internet. Just the process of editing and uploading videos and photos is time-consuming. First you've got to copy it from the memory card ...............I will make it a point to post more often around here, but there's only so many threads I can contribute useful information to. If I don't know about a subject, I'm not going to offer advice or an uninformed opinion.
    Hey luvtoclimb, I don't have a tv and don't plan to get one. So the Internet is my "timewaster". I also blog..um across 3 blogs. (actually there's a 4th blog.) Another time-waster or whatever. But thank goodness, it is about cycling...the Internet as advancing the cause of cycling and fun, whatever else.

    As for being expert on other subjects....we just think we are about: materialism, pets, Christmas, career changes, etc.
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  9. #9
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    Quote Originally Posted by Veronica View Post
    If you can, you should join in on the Christmas Eve Diablo ride.
    Are you going, V?

    All this reminiscing has me thinking about it. Heck, someone has to bring up the rear and make everyone else look good!

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  10. #10
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    Quote Originally Posted by jobob View Post
    Are you going, V?

    All this reminiscing has me thinking about it. Heck, someone has to bring up the rear and make everyone else look good!
    But I won't be there Jobob

  11. #11
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    Quote Originally Posted by jobob View Post
    Are you going, V?

    All this reminiscing has me thinking about it. Heck, someone has to bring up the rear and make everyone else look good!

    Probably not, Saturday is usually Thom's day with the trainer and my run day.

    Veronica
    Discipline is remembering what you want.


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