Strange situation need advice please.

[lph]

If I could buy you all coffee (or a beer) I so would! A girls night with all of you would be so much fun!

Hey, we can have a virtual beer party anytime Cheers! *clink*

[Brandi]

Hey, we can have a virtual beer party anytime Cheers! *clink*

Oh I like that! We should set a date and anyone who wants to join has to be on at the same time and having a cold one of their choice and we all should take a picture of us enjoying it! Oh we should do this! I am going to post a new thread and see how many of us can join!

[Brandi]

Hey, we can have a virtual beer party anytime Cheers! *clink*

So what what is the time diff for you. We have to try and line up the beer party to when you can hopefully.

[lph]

Since whenever I post seems to be like 4 am in the morning for most of you, to be honest I'm probably out.

Or I get to hang out with those of you who are still boozing at 4 am, which should be fun

No, just go set a time that works for the us gals, and I'll post a photo on the thread anyway.

[Brandi]

So I will set the scene here. Taking a lavender bubble bath, pumpkin beer, fav kitty in the sink keeping me company, phone rings, husband yells "it's her". Then I hear her voice on our machine saying things like "I know you don't care" " I don't know what your mom told you but your dad paid child support" " He did what he was supposed too" blah blah. OMG I might have to call the phone company and see if I can block her #. My bath beer and kitty moment was ruined. Siiigghhhh

[spokewench]

Sorry, Brandi - she sounds like a toxic person. She is just trying to make herself feel better, certainly not you, and most probably not your Dad.

[redrhodie]

It sounds like she's very controlling and manipulative. I would not return her call. You owe her nothing. Delete the message and move on. Another beer is in order!

[Brandi]

It is amazing how it did make me feel a little cr*appy. I started 2nd guessing myself. "Am I a bad person"?
But I snapped out of it I know better. The head game she is trying to play with me I realize is for he own. I really wanted to call her back and yell at her "YOU DON'T KNOW ME, AND DON"T ASSUME I AM ANYthING"! Then I realized it would be a waste of my energy.
She did say he was dyeing of cancer. And that he had on Monday last week a "Brain thing" as she put it. Nice huh?
Ok done ranting, have to take all 3 cats to the vet for a check up early this morning. Good distraction you know.