I went to college in NYC and went home to Pittsburgh for holidays and breaks. No point owning a car in NYC. I tried every mode of transportation available to Pgh.
Mostly I flew (2 hrs. in the air plus 2 hours on the ground), and I also signed up for frequent flyer miles, so that helped alleviate a bit of the pain.
The train and bus were usually about 9 hours. Cost a lot less, and easier to buy tickets on short notice. I really liked the train -- it took a beautiful historic route through Pennsylvania, and it got me home in time for turkey.
Is there anyone else in your community who is going or has gone to the school that your daughter is interested in? What do they do? Would they be willing to carpool if your daughter were to chip in for gas?
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