Dear self:

Really? After almost four years of this you're still surprised/angry/resentful when these people don't live up to your more-than-reasonable expectations? You told him you were resigning by the end of the year. Perhaps it's just time to walk away entirely. Nothing is going to change betwen now and then. Go volunteer on behalf of some animals. You know they'll appreciate your time and effort.

Signed, Resigned

Dear Taco and Paddy:

I'm going to miss you. You're really special kitties, and I feel blessed to have been your mom, even if only temporarily. Your new mom and dad really love animals, so give them a change to prove that to you. They've got a cool place for you to live, and you'll be well cared for. Be nice to your new brothers and sisters and please don't run off, okay? I love you lots and will never forget you,

Your Surrogate Mom