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  1. #1
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    Dear self:

    Really? After almost four years of this you're still surprised/angry/resentful when these people don't live up to your more-than-reasonable expectations? You told him you were resigning by the end of the year. Perhaps it's just time to walk away entirely. Nothing is going to change betwen now and then. Go volunteer on behalf of some animals. You know they'll appreciate your time and effort.

    Signed, Resigned

    Dear Taco and Paddy:

    I'm going to miss you. You're really special kitties, and I feel blessed to have been your mom, even if only temporarily. Your new mom and dad really love animals, so give them a change to prove that to you. They've got a cool place for you to live, and you'll be well cared for. Be nice to your new brothers and sisters and please don't run off, okay? I love you lots and will never forget you,

    Your Surrogate Mom
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    Dear Indysteel
    thanks again for helping two feral cats not only survive, but find forever homes too!!

    another crazy cat lady
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    Quote Originally Posted by Biciclista View Post
    Dear Indysteel
    thanks again for helping two feral cats not only survive, but find forever homes too!!

    another crazy cat lady
    Thanks, dear! And here's hoping re: their new home! I'm set to send them to a friend's farm later this week, but I finally heard back from our local Humane Society today. I had sent them an email last week asking if I could at least post a courtesy listing on their website (they foster animals and, last I knew, didn't have room for them). The new executive director was touched by our story and the care that we took with them and was going to talk to her Volunteer Coordinator about it. So, maybe they might find room in their foster program. I sure hope so.

    While I tend to think Paddy might do better at the farm, Taco would do very well in an indoor environment. I've spent a lot of time with her over the last week. When she had her boy with her, they kind of did their own thing, but now that she's alone, she's been in our yard almost 24/7. She is SO sweet. Someone would be incredibly lucky to have her as a pet. If my situation was even slightly different, I'd adopt her in a heartbeat.
    Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.

    --Mary Anne Radmacher

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    Good Thoughts For RD

    I'm sending my good thoughts out to RD, Biciclista's hubby! Tomorrow is the big S day, I think.

    ((((Mimi)))) and ((((RD)))).

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    Quote Originally Posted by spokewench View Post
    I'm sending my good thoughts out to RD, Biciclista's hubby! Tomorrow is the big S day, I think.

    ((((Mimi)))) and ((((RD)))).
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    Quote Originally Posted by spokewench View Post
    I'm sending my good thoughts out to RD, Biciclista's hubby! Tomorrow is the big S day, I think.

    ((((Mimi)))) and ((((RD)))).
    +1. Sending you guys good vibes. I got the kitties on it as well!
    Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.

    --Mary Anne Radmacher

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    Thinking of you and your hubby, Mimi.
    Keep us posted.
    I admire the way you have handled this situation. I don't think I would be so graceful.
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    Dear Crankin
    You only get to see my good side. I whine, cry and resent. I have bad dreams. I am not being very productive. I really appreciate you and all the other gals on here to talk to, to banter, and to talk about things that are not upsetting because i have enough of the upsetting stuff happening here. My DH wants my son and I to be with him for the first 48 hours after the surgery!!! and not leave him alone. THAT is not going to be easy. So he talks big but really he's scared too or why would he want us there constantly when he's in ICU (when lots of people will be there to take care of him?) anyway, yes yes, I will keep you guys posted. I am taking my notebook computer to the hospital, where I will be staying in the waiting room for much of the day..

    thanks you guys.
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