I've never had good luck finding the right gloves. For one thing, I need to feel something!
I've finally settled on cheep wool fingerless gloves with Ibex liners under them if it gets even colder. I really love the fingerless gloves. So much that I've started spending a little more on them, still fairly cheep, though.
http://www.rei.com/product/696508/fo...ss-ragg-gloves

I can't always feel my fingers when I get home, but that's what works.
Lisa - you live in Tucson!