Treat me kindly, my beloved master, for no heart in all the world is more grateful for kindness than the loving heart of me.
Do not break my spirit with a stick, for though I should lick your hand between the blows, your patience and understanding will more quickly teach me the things you would have me do.
Speak to me often, for your voice is the world's sweetest music, as you must know by the fierce wagging of my tail when your footstep falls upon my waiting ear.
..... author --Beth Norman Harris
And if this doesn't work for her do you want me to come over there with my boken (Japanese solid oak practice sword) and periodically for no apparent reason entirely randomly whack her with a stick to see if that's a way she likes to learn?

this said as always in the spirit of loving, kindness, protecting all things, supportive, friendly, jovial and peaceful, friendly, non-violent to all which is both Aikido and TE
